Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Sunday, July 31, 2011

Before They Go










They stayed in Melbourne for 2 weeks. And they left. I experienced the same thing as in Taylor Swift's Never Grow Up.

So here I am in my new apartment
in a big city they just dropped me off
It's so much colder than I thought it would be
So I took myself in, and turn my night light on.

I do miss them already. It feels weird having stay in a place where there are no family members in it.
But this is life, anyway. I have to face it. I'll be okay :)

Friday, July 22, 2011

Hello Melbourne!



 Hi, sorry for not updating for such a long time.
As the title suggests, yes, I am in Melbourne. I just got here 2 weeks ago. I was busy arranging my new apartment, buying stuff and the university thing. That's why I havent got the chance to update my blog.

So yeah, I really like being here. I know it's winter and it's reaaally cold here. Not as cold as the other cold places, but if you compare with Jakarta's weather, it is very cold. I like the environment. It is crowded (in the city) but it is peaceful at the same time. I don't know why. Maybe it's just because I'm in a new environment so I get that effect.

It's easy to go anywhere here. Most of the time, I travel by tram or walk. There's a lot of pedestrians and it is very nice when you walk. And the city is designed to be like grids - so it is easier for me to remember the way to places.




I'm staying in a sharing apartment with my friend from GJIS, Elvira. She goes to Melbourne University whereas I go to RMIT. The apartment itself has a very good security and an excellent service (so far). The room is very clean and big enough for us.


I got a lot of friends in RMIT. My classmates are very nice. There are 3 that are from Indonesia. The others are from China, Korea, Sweden, Hong Kong and Taiwan. They're very friendly. And I really love being in the class. The teachers are really, really friendly. I cant describe how friendly they are.

The people in Melbourne are mostly very friendly. I say this based on the shopkeepers, cashiers, teachers, etc. They always smile to us which make me feel very welcomed. It seems like they understand how we, the international students, want to be treated in a foreign country.


Anyway,
My family - parents and brothers - left Melbourne yesterday. They've been staying here for 2 weeks. I didn't accompany them to the airport because I had a class yesterday. So I decided to stay a night in my parents' temporary apartment yesterday.

Yes, I was very sad. In fact, I am still sad. I am really not usual to live in a house without at least one member of my family. And now I have to live without any of them in a different city, different country, even in a different continent, separated by sea. But I have to cope with it, right?

Maybe this is the start of the real life. Learning how to live by yourself, away from your family. Learning how to manage your money. Learning how deal with problems without parents helping you. Learning how to survive. But I think, this is not the start. This is before the start. This is only the preparation for the real life.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Making decision is a big deal

First of all, I should've thank God, because I got two conditional offers. One from RMIT and one from Swinburne University.

Now it's time to make the decision.

Swinburne gives a conditional offer for February 2012 intake. RMIT gives a conditional offer for February 2012 intake either. However, the conditional is that I have to take the foundation on July 2011. That's real quick. I'm still confused with both. I really wanna go to RMIT. Not only because RMIT is one of the universities that I want to go to at the first place, but also I think by taking the foundation, I'll learn a lot before I actually got into the university. And also the foundation is only for International students. Which means, all the students around the world, who are not from Australia. So I think it'd be easier for me to adapt in that environment, since they're also still new.

However,
I'm gonna miss my dad, my mom, and my brothers a lot. Also my friends. But I'm gonna miss my family more than anything. I'm gonna miss my house. I'm gonna miss my room. I'm gonna miss how I wake up in Sunday morning and swim. I'm gonna miss how I watch American Idol with my family. I'm gonna miss going to cinemas together. I'm gonna miss the sound of my dad's car when he got home at night. I'm gonna miss how my mom accompany me when I buy clothes. I'm gonna miss helping my mom in the kitchen (eventhough I'm not really helping anyways). I'm gonna miss shouting at my brother in the morning when he's taking shower too long. I'm gonna miss spending my weekend with my family. Having lunch or dinner at Duck King. Or buying a lot of CDs.

Okay I have to stop here. If not, I'll burst into tears.